does anyone have a comprehensive list of regular forumrelayers? it's hard to know if everyone is finding their way here, but i'd feel bad if someone couldn't find us because they didn't have the link for this forum. is there a way to find out who hasn't found their way here yet, and then contact them to send them the link?

no formal list, no... there was the discussion thread about whether everyone was here or not, but I don't think there is a list except what CR had. So, I think we just have to go by memory and hope we find everyone. :(